by Chris MundyLooking back on 'Jed' their second album of thrash-packed pop and well-articulated rage, the Goo Goo Dolls are philosophical.  "That was a very angry record," says drummer George Tutuska.  "Whenever you embark on a creative endeavor, you're leaving a mark of where your emotions are at that moment.  It's like leaving a photo scrapbook of yourself.  But sometimes you look at those photos and say, 'Oh, God.'"For its third effort, HOLD ME UP, the trio from Buffalo, New York, has traded anger for introspection.  The sound remains the same, but the message is a